Tony's Story

“I found myself involved with a younger woman. I loaned her lots of money and bought her things, but no matter how much I gave, it was never enough. She acted selfish, stretched the truth, flirted, and needed constant attention. Imagine a good-looking guy, college-educated, with a great job, and plenty of friends. Now imagine that guy reduced to mush. Eventually, I found your book and faced how I was being, an extreme Giver who needed to please, to be needed, to give and give again. She found my buttons and pushed them—and most of them led to my wallet. Your book gave me the courage to walk away.”